The General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) is our savior, great, long live Europe!
Great, but no, in reality, WhatsApp has been sharing data with Facebook since 2016: https://9to5mac.com/2016/08/25/whatsapp-facebook-data-opt-out/
Following Facebook's acquisition of WhatsApp in 2014, Facebook had pledged not to cross-reference data, including phone numbers, for at least 5 years but finally did so after 3 years: https://ec.europa.eu/commission/presscorner/detail/fr/IP_16_4473
<< contrary to Facebook's claims ... the technical possibility to automatically associate Facebook user IDs with WhatsApp user IDs already existed in 2014. At this stage, therefore, the Commission is concerned that Facebook may have deliberately or negligently provided inaccurate or misleading information to the Commission in violation of its obligations under the EU Merger Regulation.
...
It is essential that companies comply with the obligation to provide accurate and non-misleading information for the purposes of merger investigations so that the Commission can effectively review mergers and acquisitions.
Facebook had been sanctioned with 100 million euros: https://www.lefigaro.fr/secteur/high-tech017/05/18/32001-20170518ARTFIG00072-la-commission-europeenne-sanctionne-facebook-d-une-amende-de-110-millions-d-euros.php
Of course, there is no proof that the data was cross-referenced, but Facebook lied: it has been possible, since the beginning, to cross-reference WhatsApp and Facebook data.
The repeated changes to their terms of use and privacy policies are just trying to bring them into line with the... shall we say... supposed uses 😉. But you'd have to be naive to think that they don't already cross the data, while trying to limit the risks like for example not sharing the phone number but a unique and non-reversible fingerprint, which would allow to cross the data, without technically sharing the phone number (which would be total hypocrisy and not being a lawyer, I don't know if it would hold in front of a judge 😉 ).
This change of conditions has woken up the world a bit, which is starting to realize the abuses of Facebook and is starting to change platforms, especially for Signal, created by one of the founders of WhatsApp who left at the time of the takeover by Facebook and supported by the "Freedom of the Press Foundation".
So I can only recommend you to migrate from WhatsApp to something else and let you choose for yourself, see "Security Secure messaging solutions (or not)".